Monday, September 29, 2014

Love Hurts

All the time people are going to be jealous of the other person because they are always a threat towards the other person. When Stephanie did the test with people I could already tell that the results were going to be negative towards the person of the same sex. No matter who you love you would rather hurt the other person before you let the one that you loved get hurt. So when the test was done where people were shown other potential people that could take the person they loved away they made sure to physically hurt the other person or rate them so horribly to where nobody would want to be with the other person. So when I myself knew that this dark side was already there because everyone who cannot one hundred percent trust their partner will act like this because in their minds they believe that the person that they love could want this other person even more then they would want you. This type of thing will happen not only in love just anything that they care about that could make them become the second best and not be at the top of the list like they were before. So when you say that no I am not like that you have to be lying because it is just a protective nature that we all have we want to be loved by one person and nobody else, or it could be like we want the best for our child so we would rather get hurt before we let our kids get hurt so we make sure to take care of them.

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  1. All the time people are going to be jealous of the other person because they are always a threat towards the other person. When Stephanie did the test with people I could already tell that the results were going to be negative towards the person of the same sex. No matter who you love you would rather hurt the other person before you let the one that you loved get hurt. So when the test was done where people were shown other potential people that could take the person they loved away they made sure to physically hurt the other person or rate them so horribly to where nobody would want to be with the other person. So when I myself knew that this dark side was already there because everyone who cannot one hundred percent trust their partner will act like this because in their minds they believe that the person that they love could want this other person even more then they would want you. This type of thing will happen not only in love just anything that they care about that could make them become the second best and not be at the top of the list like they were before. So when you say that no I am not like that you have to be lying because it is just a protective nature that we all have we want to be loved by one person and nobody else, or it could be like we want the best for our child so we would rather get hurt before we let our kids get hurt so we make sure to take care of them.

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  2. i disagree with you when you say that people will be jealous all the time. in the study that was conducted described in the love hurts essay the people being studied were influenced to believe that there was a threat by saying, "Not only are they very attractive, and interesting, they're on their campus, they're single and they're on the prowl for a mate," this alone would make anyone jealous. If we are with someone and you are always constantly jealous you would not have true joy, your relationship would be empty and neither one of you would be truly enjoying their time together due to the jealousy. Some people may not be a jealous person because they know that their partner will be faithful and not give into a new guy or girl it honestly depends on how the relationship is and how much trust you have in each other so i disagree that people will alway be jealous like you say.

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